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  1. Ashley Mahaffey
    December 17, 2020 @ 1:31 pm

    Ahh whit I’m crying. You are so brave for sharing all of your story like this. I love you so much!! All of your feelings are completely valid. I hope today you are able to set some of them free and continue to heal. Sending you so much love!! 2021, it’s gonna be a better year!!!

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    • Something Whitty
      December 18, 2020 @ 10:14 am

      Thank you so much, Ash! It definitely helped to get these thoughts and feelings out. Love you girl!

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  2. Audrey
    December 17, 2020 @ 9:49 pm

    So many emotions reading your story.
    Sometimes life throws a bunch of unfair things and experiences at us and it’s so difficult. Some other people seem to have it so easy. But you are a beautiful person and I am sure you guys will be blessed soon. You didn’t do anything wrong and it’s not your fault. Stay strong! I am sure 2021 will bring you a lot of Joy

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    • Something Whitty
      December 18, 2020 @ 10:16 am

      Thank you so much, Audrey! I really appreciate it. 2021 has to be a better year! 🙂

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  3. Megan
    December 18, 2020 @ 9:17 am

    I cried with you from beginning to end… thank you for sharing. Everything you spoke about feeling was so relatable to my own experiences. I’m praying for you and Nick and hope it will happen for you soon. Sending ♥️ And hugs!

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    • Something Whitty
      December 18, 2020 @ 10:17 am

      Thank you! I’m sorry that you’ve been through something similar. Sending you love and hugs back!

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  4. Niamh bradley
    December 18, 2020 @ 11:49 am

    I am so sorry this has also happened to you. I am currently going through a Miscarriage, 7 weeks ago tomorrow we went for our 10 week scan only to find out the baby heart has stopped at 7-8. On our way to the scan there was a Rainbow so bright and I remember thinking for a split second what if something was wrong? Was this a sign?. It was. Due to covid I have not been offered a d&c, I started to bleed on 15th November and I am still bleeding. I attended another appointment this morning and got bloods taken so I am waiting on a phone call any minute to see if there is any tissue left as it is taking a very long time. This has been a very long emotional journey. Hope to see some positive news from you soon.

    Love Niamh (Ireland)

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    • Something Whitty
      December 28, 2020 @ 8:07 am

      Hi Niamh, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s a long road, but I know it will get better for us both. Sending you lots of love and positivity. xoxo, Whitney

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  5. Susan
    December 19, 2020 @ 1:51 pm

    Totally understand all of the emotions and reactions you’ve felt this year. And I’m so sorry for the loss of your little girl. Wish I could offer you a fail-safe plan for pregnancy again. Wishing you all the best in 2021.

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    • Something Whitty
      December 28, 2020 @ 8:08 am

      Thank you so much, Susan! Here’s to hoping 2021 will be a much better year. xoxo

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  6. Katie
    March 26, 2021 @ 11:11 pm

    I’m so sorry for your devastating loss. I had two miscarriages last year, one in April, one in June, and I understand all too well the pain and grief you’re describing. My heart is with you. These things don’t make sense, but I’m comforted by the double rainbow sign that your daughter is in your mom’s arms. I’m now pregnant for a third time in one year, gratefully expecting our son in May. I hope your fertility story has a similar ending soon.

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    • Something Whitty
      March 30, 2021 @ 1:56 pm

      Thank you so much! And I’m so sorry for your losses. It’s a long road, but I’m glad to hear you’re pregnant with your rainbow baby!

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  7. Autum
    April 7, 2021 @ 2:30 pm

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. You are not alone though. I’ve lost my first and third pregnancies. I have a similar story like yours with my first. I Got pregnant immediately after going off of 15 years of BC. I thought it was too easy. Went in for routine scan to find no heartbeat. A missed misscariage they called it. I opted for the medical management to try and give my body a chance to miscarry on it’s on. Well, it did not. I needed 2 rounds of medication over the course of 3 weeks for my body to finally expel what it needed to. I felt broken. All my friends and family were pregnant. I hated that I felt jealous. I wanted to get pregnant immediately but I did not. Took 13 months to get pregnant with my rainbow.🌈
    It will happen in time. I know how hard it is.

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    • Something Whitty
      April 19, 2021 @ 8:31 am

      Thank you and I’m so sorry for your losses as well. I can relate to everything that you said. It’s even harder when all of your friends are pregnant. It feels like every time I go on social media someone else is posting a pregnancy announcement when it isn’t happening for me. I know it will happen eventually, so I’m just trying to staying positive until it does. <3

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  8. Tessie
    April 7, 2021 @ 7:52 pm

    First thank you for writing this, it takes a lot of courage. Speaking about miscarriages needs to be normalized. I am so sorry about your loss. I had my first miscarriage in November 2019 and my second May 2020. However, my double rainbow baby was born March 4th 2021. I do believe the double rainbow you saw was a sign from your mama. Look for more signs from your mama and I know she will send you another baby soon!

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    • Something Whitty
      April 19, 2021 @ 8:29 am

      Thank you so much. I’m so sorry for your losses as well. I believe that too, I’ll have to keep an eye out for more signs xoxo

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  9. Maggie O’
    April 8, 2021 @ 9:06 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us…I am extremely sorry for your loss.
    This was a very emotional read.
    Have strong feelings that wonderful things are in store for you and Nick 🤍

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  10. Lauren
    April 16, 2021 @ 3:28 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I too had a miscarriage at 16 weeks. We had heard a strong heartbeat a week earlier, had done the genetic testing that came back fine… and then all of a sudden it was over. No heartbeat. I had already quit my job to stay home with baby, was wearing maternity clothing (this was my 3rd baby, so I was showing IMMEDIATELY), and had moved my kids into a bunkbed to prepare the nursery. A loss this late was completely unexpected and I’m still in shock honestly. It’s only been a month, but I am slowly picking up the pieces and healing.

    I loved how you saw a double rainbow the day of your gender reveal. It’s very comforting to think of our little ones in the arms of their family up in heaven. You and your husband are in my prayers. I hope y’all can welcome a rainbow baby SOON! <3

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    • Something Whitty
      April 19, 2021 @ 8:28 am

      Thank you so much. I’m so sorry for your loss as well. It sounds like we had very similar experiences. It was definitely shocking and took me a long time to put the pieces back together.
      Sending lots of love to you and your family and hoping we both get our rainbow babies soon!

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  11. Amy
    April 24, 2021 @ 10:04 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss! I found you through Instagram – I can’t imagine how painful this has been. Your baby girl will always hold a special place in your heart! My Mom lost her first baby at 16 weeks & I am her rainbow baby (at now 34 years old!) – she has told me how difficult it was to be so far along, but the joy she had when she had me was so special! Hugs you get your rainbow too!!

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  12. Shay
    June 22, 2021 @ 6:21 pm

    I just found your blog today. I just went through nearly the exact same experience. My husband and I were so excited to announce our first pregnancy, and we waited until we were “in the clear” to share the news at 15 weeks. I learned at 16w5d that there was no heartbeat. Words really can’t describe how devastated we are. My D&E procedure started yesterday and was completed today. Thank you for sharing your story, and the happy photos from your pregnancy. It’s important to commemorate that time in your life. We are mothers to angels now, and though we only carried them for a short while they will be with us forever. I hope you and your husband can bring a little one earth side soon. ❤️ hugs

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    • Something Whitty
      June 30, 2021 @ 5:01 pm

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult the D&E is so I really hope you’re feeling ok. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I agree with everything you said and I hope that we both get our rainbow babies soon. ❤️❤️

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